dad-isms:

It would be a mistake to put too much stock into your first love, years later entertaining thoughts of what might have been.  You know as well as I do, there was a reason it didn’t work out.  All people, even your mother and I change, and chances are your first love would be A or B, but not C or D…and something would still be an issue.  Yes, for a few fleeting weeks or months that person still seems perfect in your mind…but nobody is perfect.  

Instead of putting time into something that will probably never happen, (and even if it did happen you would probably be just as happy/miserable as you are today) look at what you have now.  Work on it.  Mold it.  Shape it.  Make it the very best it can be.  

Your relationship with your spouse isn’t like a car that over time needs to be replaced, it is more like a fine wine.  Savor it

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